Everything happens for a reason?

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That people make up afterwards.

I hear people say this all the time, and it just makes my moral and ethical skin crawl.

Everything happens for a reason. Everything? Really?

Bullcrap.

What reason would that be? Folks who say this have no idea what they are saying.

However, when an event confirms their belief in that statement, the verbal diarrhea resumes.

"See! I told you there was a reason. It is/isn't meant to be! Things happen for a reason."

No they do not.

Things happen.

The reasons that get propped up happen after and do not relate except in your feeble mind.

Stop saying this to people. Stop saying it to yourself.

Child abuse doesn't "happen for a reason". Genocide doesn't "happen for a reason". I lost my wallet because I'm an idiot.

Good and evil are real. They exist in my heart, and in the hearts of us all. We do dumb things, for no reason. We do great things for no reason. We are humans BEING.

Attributing some random illogical and unreasonable construct to events as a way to assuage your fears is demonstrative of great weakness. Stop it.

Start taking responsibility.

Onward!

Dr. J

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